#2 spend time doing the things that create a home. things like, cooking, cleaning, dreaming up colors for the bare walls, planting herbs on the balcony, lounging with my 2 cats, baking banana bread for the neighbors, and being still- doing nothing.
i know how to do these things and i truly enjoy each one of them. what i need to learn to do is to do them consistently, integrate “making a home” into my everyday life, weekly to do lists, etc. move away from “making a home” sporadically, to intentionally and with care.